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We are all prone to giving up easily, when something bad happens to us, we tend to cling to that pain, and sulk. When we can easily let go of it! Yes, it is not that easy, but it is doable. So you have broken up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, and you feel like it's the end of the world for you, and that no one else will love you the way your ex loved you. That is just plain crazy, if you constantly think that you are not good enough, then that's how people will see you as well. You are the one who's making yourself not good enough for others. If you learn how to let go of your heartache, and instead replace it with joyful thoughts or feelings, then your will emanate positive vibes that others will find attractive. It's not the end of the world yet, and in fact, there are a lot of people who can and will still find you worth to be in a relationship with. So do not put yourself down, get rid of your self-pity and low self-esteem, attitudes like those are nothing but deterrents.

Stop dwelling on the past and look to the future.
Most people know very well what they do not want. As for what they want, they usually want the thing they do not want out of their lives. This approach, however, is wrong and will not lead to attracting abundance. Focusing on what you do not want, even if you wish for its elimination, will bring you more on that old undesired thing. Therefore, by dwelling on the past, you can only attract more of the past, and you are almost sure to never see the object of your desire in the future. Therefore, it is important to forget about the past and focus on your future desire. But how is one supposed to do this?

The best way to eliminate any past hurt is through gratitude.
Most people remain stuck in the past because they do not know how to move forward to where they want to be. The best way to parry any past hurt or dissatisfaction is through expressing gratitude. But what is there to be grateful when you have been wronged, you are poor, unhappy, etc? There is always something to be grateful for. Start with the small things - being alive, nature, your friends, your past successes, your future prospects. Anything positive will do. And if you look for the positive, you will find it, but you have to look for it actively!
 
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