Probably best to just manually check the oil yourself. The service interval reset function is just a miles counter; nothing more. You can re-set this yourself; it has nothing to do with actual oil level or engine performance.
The tech's opinion as to when to how often to change oil is just that; "an opinion" (hopefully a professional one). The basic factory recommendation is 7.5K miles; but the recommendation changes for "heavy duty driving" like constant stop and go traffic; dusty conditions, etc. Regardless the decision of when to change oil is really up to you, as long as you have records of regular oil changes your warranty cannot be voided (and doesn't have to be at the dealer).
If your driving is normal, I would insist on the 7.5K miles interval and just do a periodic check. Remember you are the customer; it's your car.
The tech's opinion as to when to how often to change oil is just that; "an opinion" (hopefully a professional one). The basic factory recommendation is 7.5K miles; but the recommendation changes for "heavy duty driving" like constant stop and go traffic; dusty conditions, etc. Regardless the decision of when to change oil is really up to you, as long as you have records of regular oil changes your warranty cannot be voided (and doesn't have to be at the dealer).
If your driving is normal, I would insist on the 7.5K miles interval and just do a periodic check. Remember you are the customer; it's your car.